meeting women

So Wayne, why coffee shops? Can I really meet beautiful girls there?

The reason coffee shops are one of my top places to meet girls is because MANY single women go there to read, and plus... they are usually by themselves, and quite open to having a conversation with someone interesting.

You've simply got to try this out for yourself. I've met several girlfriends, and many great girls to just have fun with (I'm sure you know what I mean).

But how do you meet women in coffee shops? Well one of the big keys is WHERE you sit. Most coffee shops have an area that has nice soft, cushy chairs to relax on. If your local one doesn't, then find another one (I'm serious).

Around my area, there's a place called "Panera Bread", and they have a little area with 3 big soft leather chairs, a coffee table to put your stuff on, and a nice fireplace.

This is the perfect area to sit, because if a woman sits down in that area, there's a very high chance that she's just there to hang out, or just read. And since you're practically sitting together, it's very easy to comment on just about anything to get the conversation started.

You can comment on something she's wearing, the weather outside, the temperature of the room, what book she's reading, etc. It doesn't matter... what does matter is that you just get your foot in the door.

It's also a really good idea to carry interesting things with you to the coffee shops. Some of my favorite things to bring are:

* A big book that says "Handwriting Analysis" on it.

* A deck of Tarot Cards.

* A bunch of pictures of single women that I can go through in front of her (and ask her which one she things I should go out with... this is fun to do. I talk about this in my book "Seven Magic Words").

* Any kind of interesting, and portable game or puzzle. (oh the puzzle one is powerhouse, because you can ask for her help in solving it).

If you don't know how to do Handwriting Analysis or Tarot, then pick something else that you can learn. Trust me, once you get the hang of it, starting up conversations in coffee shops is very easy.

Also, make sure you get to know the employees that work there. They can be a huge help in introducing you to people, and letting you know when good bands are coming in to play (which will make the place full of women).

Make sure you check out at least 5 coffee shops before you decide on which one you like the best. This will take a little bit of time on your part, but it's well worth it. Plus, if you become a regular, you'll get to meet the other regulars, and some of them are bound to either be single, or have single friends that they will bring along sometime....