First of all, if you are still thinking of what to say and do when a woman looks at you, you still need practice, conscious repetition of different approaches until it becomes second nature.
If a woman makes eye contact with me in bar, let?s say she is drinking a thingytail, I immediately shoot: ?Hey what are you drinking? (dull uh? Yes?and it works for me all the time. It opens the interaction).
Wait for her answer and go: ?wow, are you going to buy me one?? She?ll laugh. And you keep going: ?I?ll have two lime slices though?OMG you?re so generous. It?s hard to find nice people like you these days?who are you here with?
Always ask who she?s there with for two reasons
1. If she is there with her boyfriend (very rarely), you know that immediately and you can move on. You can actually use the interaction to warm up and start getting social.
2. If she?s with her friends you want to meet them and start ?vibing? with the group. Yes you make friends with them. If they like you, they will help you to get the girl?s phone number. And on top of that they?ll be your buddies for the night, or for a few minutes.
Once you?re in the group and got accepted by the group, you can relax and talk with your girl. Now with your great conversation skills (I guess you?re working on that right?) you must find something that interests you in the girl.
Don?t worry, you?ll feel immediately as soon as she triggers a ?state of attraction in you?. You?ll feel your body chemistry change and she?ll notice it from all the signals that you unconsciously are going to give her.
Then, time to bridge. Once you?ve decided you want to see her again, say: ?Hey you are a very interesting person but I have to go meet my buddies but we should continue this?. Give me your number and I?ll be in touch with you next time I?m in town for a cup of something beautiful.
I f she likes you, she?ll give you her number.
Now, very important step. Ring her so that she can save your name and number on her phone. People and, especially women, are reluctant to answer to numbers they don?t recognize.
Then, look straight in her eyes and say: ?Hey, you guys enjoy the rest of the night, I promise I?ll be in touch. Be good!?
Then leave.
Hey know?I know?you don?t think this is possible. Bus as I said, this works for me. This is just my approach. And it comes from my experience. You must find your style.
But yes, it is true that we need ideas...all artists do...
Good luck!
FranX
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